:: jealous,not understanding,etc..etc..etc.. ::

• JEALOUS

"Love is not jealous, ... does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked

."

Jealousy is when you react negatively towards the possibility of losing what you have to someone else. Unlike envy, it usually involves three people, rather than just two: you, the person wh

o has what you want, and the person who threatens to take it away. It's an unhealthy habit that can make any kind of relationship crumble; if you're a jealous person, you've probably already seen how much damage it can do. But at the core of jealousy are some fears and expectations that are hard to shake, unless you make a conscious effort to cast them away.
(http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Jealous)

hehehehe....jealous? ummmm.... apa pendapat aku about jealous? well,aku tak nafikan,sifat cemburu tue memang ade dalam diri aku..even now...tapi bila aku kaji2 balik selama aku berchenta,jealous tue actually boleh tapi kena bertempat..honestly,before nie aku agak jealous,sikit2 nak jealous even aku tau,benda takde pape pon...jealous tue buat mind kita terkongkong ngn benda negative..pikir benda negative..so mesti akan ade effect kat dalam relationship kita... let's say kite terlalu jealous ngn pasangan kita,so pasangan kita nak buat apa2 p

on mesti terpikir " nak bgtahu ke tak nak,patot ke....nak ke bagitahu...." so jawapan kesudahannya"diam2 je lah.." kalau kite kurangkan rase cemburu tue,mesti pasangan kite akan btindak lebeh waras(ceewaahhh),mesti takde nak berahsia suma...kalau kita tahu yg pasangan kita btol2 sayangkan kita,mustahil dea nak buat benda buruk blakang kita kan?

• UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER

haaaaa..ini paling penting kot untuk semua orang..kalau tak memahami satu sama

laen,macamana hubungan tue nak kekalkan.. tak banyak benda nak describe pasal understanding nie.. cukup sekar pasangan kita tahu status diri masing2..kalau rasa diri tue just nak berchenta je tapi tak paham hati pasangan sendiri,better jgn berchenta... hehehe..(it's better

than heart broken)...betul kan? kalau memasing paham situation,diri pasangan sendiri,lama2 kita pon akan biasa..semua nie pon bagus sebab dapat ajar kite kenal hati budi masing2 secara mendalam..baik buruk dea... bila kita dah betul2 kenal hati budi masing2,bila apa2 jadi someday,kita senang nak facing and handle it.. let's say if kita kenal pasangan kita,tapi kita tak memahami dea,memang tak guna.. bila waktu2 trouble tue datang,masing2 tak dapat nak handle.. SUSAH WOOO~